I work hard but believe in balance so I love to get out and enjoy spending my hard earned dollar. I think it’s wonderful that you are driven, ambitious, and self-sufficient. The majority of men aren’t slackers and aren’t millionaires. Plus he has student loan debt that he’s not trying to pay off urgently, and his longest job has been only about 6 months so far.But in the same breath I believe in financial stability – I own property, invest, have a savings and no debt. I paid attention to your blog about not looking for someone who is a clone of me but rather who compliments me. Whether she makes ,000 or 0,000 is largely irrelevant. Because he HAS money and he doesn’t expect her to support him. I hope you are soon raking in high-six-figures for what you’ve accomplished. They’re normal, stable, hard-working men with real middle-class to upper-middle class jobs. I really like him as a person, but at my age, I almost feel the practical thing to do would be to cut him loose so he can mature up a bit and have a better idea of direction of his life. The I-get-increasingly-less-romantic-with-each-date guy. Many men break out all the stops early on in the dating process, but by the fifth of sixth date, the laziness starts to creep in.
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He is thoughtful, attentive, supportive…at least what I’ve seen after 4 dates. Is there any reason, Michelle, that you can’t date the same exact way? Because that means that you can marry a man for one reason and one reason alone: love.
Now here’s the problem – he’s 31 and has not finished his degree (I have two post graduate degrees), has not kept a stable job for more than 12 consecutive months (in fact he quit his job last week just because he didn’t like his boss anymore), has no assets, no savings, no investment and still needs to pay off his student loan. Two examples of great men who make less than their wives: A high-school history teacher and soccer coach who has a Masters degree.
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